Bullying: A Big Complicated Problem with Many Simple Solutions

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Showing posts with label peer to peer abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label peer to peer abuse. Show all posts

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Bullying: Demi Lovato is an UPSTANDER!


Demi Lovato hearts Kelly Clarkson, and Bill O'Reilly hearts Demi Lovato

(Click on link above and scroll to short 2nd video to see Demi's advice to kids about bullying.)

Good girl, Demi. You haven't backed down from your message. A couple of years ago when you were really young, you were public about the bullying you received. That must have been hard as a young teen to be so vocal about something that is so diminishing. But you didn't stop there and now that you're (almost) 18 -- Happy Birthday tomorrow, btw -- you're still getting the message out there. It's a brave and kind and very thoughtful way to use your celebrityhood.

Demi Lovato is an UPSTANDER!

Thanks, Demi, for encouraging adults and kids to step up and say "It's Not O.K." It's also good advice to" Tell someone"...and so for all those "someones" out there, including parents, teachers, peers, coaches, counselors, aunts, uncles, grandparents and any adult with a brain and a heart, Listen Up! Validate! Follow UP! Be Compassionate.

You may never know how much a difference you're making but know that being an upstander can change someone's life. And when you do something cool like helping someone who needs to feel ok about themselves, do something good for yourself. Pat yourself on the back, get a double latte and tell yourself you're a superhero even though no one can see your cape.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Bullying: 86,400 Seconds In A Day To Do Something About It



In the 86,400 seconds that make up a day, 60 seconds of it could be used to help a child or a co-worker in pain from bullying abuse.

What can be done in 60 seconds?

eye contact

• listening

a few kind sentences

telling the knucklehead that's doing it to stop

stepping up by telling someone in a position to help

reminding them that they don't deserve it

including them

not laughing

not joining in online or offline

when online, advising friends not to hit "send" when the message is clearly unkind

giving a hug

realizing it only takes a minute to be an upstander

That's it. That only took about 60 seconds to type. (OK, 120 seconds but there are 86,280 left.)